I have read this post several times and am still trying to figure out how a person’s sexual orientation relates to living off the grid any more than it would relate to living on the grid. Unless you are specifically looking for a group of gay men for companionship, I do not think it would make any difference at all. The off gridders I know have a habit of minding their own business and expect the same of others. As far as bigotry is concerned, it exists everywhere, in all social strata, and it is not solely directed at gay people. Any time you find two or more people in a group, you’re going to find some kind of bigotry. Get over it and get on with your life and do what you want to do. Do not let other peoples problems become your own or dictate your life for you. This link may be helpful; https://www.bearridgetradingpost.com/.